and i luv her the most... she is one of my favourite childhood memories.
We recently met after a hiatus... She is in college(Final year) now and am in Job...
Things have changed... perceptions have... But we still love each other a lot.
Only Difference is now am a lil protective a lil supportive a lil strict a lil pally...
Oflate over a session of Breezer (for the fist time I had Alcohol with my "younger" sis...
Weird feeling which i can never ever explain) she asked me some serious questions
Since I give a lot of space n freedom she was OK wid sharing her queries abt love life and sex with me.
Questions:
She: Guddu didi .. Is it OK to be in a relationship for fun with no strings attached !!
Me: Shocked !
She : Guddu Didi... Is It OK to fool around with multiple guys at a time !!
Me: More Shocked
She: Guduu Didi... Is It OK to Loose ones Virginity before Marriage !!!!
Me: Fainted
I dont remember wat all I said... but yes one thing I repeated for quite a number of time ..
"Dont get caught" :)
Has the generation moved tooo ahead of my times and thinking ?
I was glad that atleast she considered me good enough to be candid in asking such questions ..
But somehow I was so nervous in answering them all..
Umpteen Questions were crossing my mind ..
Am I giving her the right advice? Is it right on my part to give her this much freedom?
Am I acting cool or I actually am?
Should I not tell her to do not to do such things at all and be a hypocrite ?
Wat if she takes all this in a wrong sense and go on a shitty path in her life...
I dont know how she is interpreting all wat gyan i gave her..
But I hope I sent the right virtues across..
No matter wat I wont be able to live with the guilt that I acted as a catalyst ones in her wrong doing
I love her the most ... I am just praying that She stays fine :)
