Serious Questions!

I spent my entire childhood around this cousin of mine who is 4 yrs younger to me

and i luv her the most... she is one of my favourite childhood memories.

We recently met after a hiatus... She is in college(Final year) now and am in Job...

Things have changed... perceptions have... But we still love each other a lot.

Only Difference is now am a lil protective a lil supportive a lil strict a lil pally...

Oflate over a session of Breezer (for the fist time I had Alcohol with my "younger" sis...

Weird feeling which i can never ever explain) she asked me some serious questions

Since I give a lot of space n freedom she was OK wid sharing her queries abt love life and sex with me.

Questions:

She: Guddu didi .. Is it OK to be in a relationship for fun with no strings attached !!

Me: Shocked !

She : Guddu Didi... Is It OK to fool around with multiple guys at a time !!

Me: More Shocked

She: Guduu Didi... Is It OK to Loose ones Virginity before Marriage !!!!

Me: Fainted

I dont remember wat all I said... but yes one thing I repeated for quite a number of time ..

"Dont get caught" :)

Has the generation moved tooo ahead of my times and thinking ?

I was glad that atleast she considered me good enough to be candid in asking such questions ..

But somehow I was so nervous in answering them all..

Umpteen Questions were crossing my mind ..

Am I giving her the right advice? Is it right on my part to give her this much freedom?

Am I acting cool or I actually am?

Should I not tell her to do not to do such things at all and be a hypocrite ?

Wat if she takes all this in a wrong sense and go on a shitty path in her life...

I dont know how she is interpreting all wat gyan i gave her..

But I hope I sent the right virtues across..

No matter wat I wont be able to live with the guilt that I acted as a catalyst ones in her wrong doing

I love her the most ... I am just praying that She stays fine :)